Shaz welcome. As Mark said, you're going to have a lot of information coming your way. Over and over again in the beginning stages of my Dx I found this site to be the one place where I could make sense of everything I was being told. I could come here and find that the direction they were having me go was pretty standard for my Dx and many others had been down the same road. It can really help put your mind at ease.
-Steve

Age 41 - Stage 2 SCC tongue Dx 2/06. Cisplatin x3, IMRT x35. Mets to neck node discovered 7/07. RND 40 nodes removed, margins not clear. Cisplatin, Taxotere, 5-FU Fall 07, then IMXT/Erbitux for 7 wks. Inoperable mets to both lungs and pleura Dx Oct'08. 4 cycles Carboplatin, Erbitux, 5-FU so far.