Shaylynn,

I have suggestions for the uninsured with their medical expenses, being uninsurable and one of the lucky ones who received the very best of care through county & state help.

I'm afraid I don't have much to offer in regards to living expenses, though. My husband worked 7 days a week and bills piled up, got juggled, etc. and our finances were in pretty bad shape by the time I was approved for Social Security Disability. And that was with me being self-employed and so still able to do some work (accounting) for my clients while in treatment. These few clients I kept on with were also friends and very patient and understanding.

You might try contacting the American Cancer Society. I know that while I was staying in their housing for out-of-town patients in treatment there were programs available to help with home living expenses. I don't know much about them though, as I did not apply for the help.

I think I remember you saying you were recently married. Is there help available from family? Is temporarily moving in with family an option? Don't just say no by reflex. Really think about it and discuss it with your husband. About ten years ago my son, his wife and baby were financially challenged enough to need this kind of help. My house is small, but we all love each other and it worked long enough for my son to finish school and get them back on their feet.

If I think of anything else, I'll certainly let you know. This disease is devastating and challenging enough without the additional financial/living difficulties.

Lani