Hi Jerry,
Best I can say is that, at the least, you are well equipped to support her and her family emotionally during this time because you have been there, altho you will be switching roles. I have an employee [has been with us since 1993] who will get a biopsy next week on the back of his tongue for a recurrant "sore". He has no insurance and needless to say I am worried sick for him. He keeps asking me questions that I don't want to answer - for his sake - until we know what this is. Hope you have a good Thanksgiving. Amy