ahh...Much better. Thanks guys. I posted Stephan Jay Gould's piece "The median isn't the message", and cited this forum as one of my life boats in this ocean of fear and guilt even, that I navigate in caring for my one true love: Z!. A few people even sent me "gratitude", which you can do with a quick click on that forum. I guess in the end there is no sense in trying to sway those that aren't open. Truth be told,those demons are mine and I just have to get them to work for me. I am so grateful for your support and witnessing. It's wonderfully essential.
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