Catherine,
Welcome, (I really wish I didn't have to say that to you.)
I am glad however, given your recent diagnosis and circumstances that you found this site it will certainly become a family for you and a great source of advice, information and compassion.
Staging can be difficult to understand and since evry cancer and every individuals reaction to cancer is different and unique it may or may not be helpful in every case. As a general rule it allows the doctors to determine how agressive the cancer is and how far it has progressed and the potential for future spread. Here is a link from this site that explains the basics of cancer staging. Brian Hill, this sites founder, has done a great job with explanations of many issues concerning OC and I encourage you to read them. Brian will also jump in and offer up anything he feels needs clarification or an update. He is by far the most up to date, knowledgeable and approachable person I have ever come into contact with on this subject and I have a great amount of respect for his continued efforts in maintaining this site and his neverending work to push Oral Cancer to the forefront as a major issue affecting our communities.
http://www.oralcancerfoundation.org/facts/stages_cancer.htmI myself have not had OC but, being a dentist feel that this was the best place that I could help out and offer advice.
I am sure someone who has had a similar experience will be quick to provide you with some personal experience and help you along.
If you ever have any question that you feel I can answer please feel free to contact me either on the forumn by PM or via my e-mail address in my profile. I'll certainly do my best to answer your questions and help you along.
Keep a positive attitude and look after yourself.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cheers,
Mike
