Joanne,
Thanks for your reply. I needed that sentence, "don't wait, let me diagnose", that you got from your husband's surgeon. My husband says, "its all OK", but he does not look at it all the time. My family wants to make believe its done, its over and there is nothing to worry about. That is not quite where my head is!!

My best to your husband, as you plow thru these things that come up!!