Hi Donna,

I've recently been going to a cranial sacral / physical therapist who specialized in lymphadema. Here is a link to some of the lymphatic drainage massage techniques they've given me. I've noticed a big difference over the past few months. My face would get puffy now and again... I've noticed that my face is much more even from doing them. I also wher ethis compression neck garmet for a few hours a day. Maybe these excercises will help you.
(the site says they are for a natural "facelift"- but they are virtually the same as what my therapist showed me).

http://www.reflexology-education-now.com/face-lift.html

Take care and try not to worry too much. Sorry you have to deal with this.

LOVE Kate