Hi Sue,
Find a good physical therapist to help with the lymph drainage and stiff muscles. Been certain to warn them about the sensitive spots on you neck. I had one, called a neuroma(nerve didn't go back in sheath properly), that drive me nuts for about 5 years before it settled down. Hopefully yours will not take that long.

Take care,
Eileen


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Aug 1997 unknown primary, Stage III
mets to 1 lymph node in neck; rt ND, 36 XRT rad
Aug 2001 tiny tumor on larynx, Stage I total laryngectomy; left ND
June 5, 2010 dx early stage breast cancer
June 9, 2011 SCC 1.5 cm hypo pharynx, 70% P-16 positive, no mets, Stage I