Delia, Glad to know Charlie is getting through this well. As to the scans- it's a "sweat it out" process. John has had 4 [including the one that diagnosed the 1st cancer} and the anxiety does not lessen during the 1st yr. or so. I am reading Lance Armstrong's book "Every Second Counts" . He talks alot about how cancer changed his attitude. It is very interesting. Hope your wedding plans go smoothly. Amy