You could also make a request on this site for anyone that may share his surgery and treatment to talk to him off site. I would/will but I didn't have any surgery so I could only address the concurrent rad/chemo.

If nothing else works then post his concerns/questions for him and print out the responses and let him read them. Maybe that will get him interested to begin posting himself.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.