Thank you all for your posts. I will do exactly that. Notebook and recorder. I am truly touched that you all are here supporting each other and me. It is hard to discuss this with others. I don't think anyone really gets it.

denise

CG to Mom. Dx 2/08. Mucoepidermoid carcinoma in the minor salivary gland in lower lip. Surgery 3/12/08. Margins clear but not clear enough. Surgery scheduled for 4/23/08. Surgery Successful. Clear Margins