Ashley: This may be the most important decision you and your family ever have to make, as you already know.
Read the signature line at the end of this post, and you will see that my husband is 4 months post treatment, Stage IV-A SCC, with one lymph node positive.
Why not hit it with everything your team has to offer....get this behind you so that you can go on with your lives... raising your family....
We're all behind you, no matter what decision you make...

Lois & Buzz in NC

CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge; Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;
T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A
28 IMRT +
6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin
Getting stronger every day!