David, If all you got from that post was that I "have it out for you" I have to question whether you even read it carefully.

I was trying to tell you how that sort of "why did this bad thing happen to you?" made me, personally, feel, when you did it to me--as well as how I see other people kind of reacting. I said, and I will say it again in hopes it might get through a second time, that I respect both your curiousity and your good intentions.

I also thought you might be willing to see that you can still make people feel bad despite good intentions and that you wouldn't want to do that and so would want feedback if you did. Perhaps I was wrong in that assessment.

Nelie