God sophia if it was only that easy.If you ask twenty people on this forum what they think you should do ,i guess you would pretty much get the same answer.Everyones case is unique,and every one has to make the right choice for them based on the facts and options.

The most important thing for you is to get all the medical facts options and possible outcome. If after all that you still cant decide,get a second opinion and see how that compares.In the mean time read some stories on this forum and see how others have coped when faced with your news.

Carry on asking questions as i know there are plenty here who have faced difficult choices,and they will be ready and willing to help.

love liz