I can't understand why a Dr would tell you it will come back. He has to be very uncaring to even have it in his mind. All I think should be said is what the chances for recovery are , not what they aren't. I think I would have something to say to him.THats' as bad as the Dr that told me I didn't need rad or chemo , 2 months later he tells me it's back and I need both. Hell, why didn't he do them after surgery? I have you on my prayer list.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here