Wallyswife and Brenda, you are two of the strongest, most practical, amazing women I know. Your approaches are methodical. Your lives filled with love. You make the best of each day and have provisions for days that might not be so great. You have each taken situations that would cripple many people into inaction and shown us how to take each day one at a time without concentrating on the long term outcome. Much love to both of you.