It's EXTREMELY frustrating for some of us caregivers, who struggle to put the weight back on our loved ones, while trying to maintain our own weight.
Since Buzz has been sick, I add EXTRA butter, heavy cream, sauces & gravies, lots of baked breads, rich desserts, etc....I have gained about 20 pounds, and he is still struggling to maintain 160!
..Go figure!

CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge; Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;
T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A
28 IMRT +
6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin
Getting stronger every day!