Pam,

Nellie and Minnie are right, positive thinking is a good thing, but it won't prevent the cancer from returning. One thing I did learn from my sister is that positive thinking and having a good attitude will make it easier to deal with whatever fate throws your way. My sister did what she could to prevent the cancer from returning, becoming a veggan and going on a an anti cancer diet, was into the Oprah "Secrets" thinking of visualizing and believing in whatever you want to happen in your life. In the end I think it helped her to handle her illness and gave her a sense of peace. You keep doing what feels right for you and since you are four years post, I think that is very encouraging. You are in my thoughts and I wish the best for you.

Nancy


Caregiver to sister Connie, dx 2005, scc tongue, 4 surgeries inc. radical left side neck dissection 7/06, 35 IMRT, and 7 cisplatin 2/07, passed away 8-11-07, 51 yrs. young, fought with courage, strength and grace, found peace on her new journey.