Hi, caregiver, I agree with Wayne's statement above. Something you might tuck into the back of your mind, tho, is that if there were a recurrance down the road, you are already much more prepared than the first time: you understand the language now, you know the Docs and the hospital routines, you both have dealt with the rigors of surgery and rad., you are familiar with the drugs, with Insurance issues, you know how to organize your time- in short, you are not an "enlisted gal" anymore, you have earned the rank of general in this battle! So enjoy the present to the utmost and let the future come as it comes. Amy in the Ozarks