Hi Amy:
My husband was treated at a cancer clinic which believed in integrative therapy. He saw a nutritionist every single appt. and we received a binder of great information on what to eat & what not to eat as well as what supplements to take. My husband never had a feeding tube. He did lose 30 lbs. but he is down to his normal weight now. Don't know if you had the help of a nutritionist, but I have lots of info I could copy/send to you if you wish.
Also, a good thing I had read about was drinking club/selzer water with a meal. Ken says it helps with his eating.
There is also a new product on the market called Caphosol. It sounds very promising in helping with mouth dryness/soreness. It is not cheap but we are getting 3 bottles through our mail pharmacy. I will let you know if it helps Ken once he starts using it. There is a web site:
www.caphosol.com/careom which will explain this product. My husband's oncologist just told us about it.
Linda K.