Deborah, so you know now radiation cannot be transferred and you can see from the posts that these fellows have plenty of life in them.
When the thought of my dearest husband not being immortal occured, I panicked and decided this was the time to drop the inhibitions, spice up the wardrobe, stock the bookshelves. Whatever I could think of to ease whatever misery may lie ahead. A couple down weeks during treatment is all he suffered. Ice princess turned to popcicle princess and when life hands you lemons, squeeze for the lemonaid. Enjoy!
Guys, if you can dish it out, be prepared to receive the "back at ya!"