David,
Funny we are and so is how this Tx effects people differently. Right now the only place I can grow facial hair is my mustache. And even that grows like a little Hitler thing. I never liked shaving so it's cool with me that I don't have to anymore.
Don't know why my hair is falling out now? Probably the chemo? I did lose the hair on the back of my neck too, but that seems to be growing back slowly. Hoepfully I won't go bald.
Your wife is right we are a mess!