David, print off some of these posts and lay them around where you wife can see them and maybe she will pick them up and read them.
It took me about 3 months before I had the energy to move and then 15-18 months before I felt normal. Mary

Dx June 2004 stage III right tonsil 1 node involved, 70 radiation tx completed 08/20/04, no chemo or surgery, 32 years old and 26 weeks pregnant at dx and tx. & non-smoker and non-drinker