hi Nicki, must admit I didn't expect such a lot of input about the mental anguish, that is obviously as strong/important as the physical pain.Tears I think are good inhelping to release the build up of frustration, last weekend was particularly bad for my brother and he lost it in a big way,and I've never seen him cry such a lot and so,so deeply! However, we all held together and the next morning he was/is better than ever.His wife and children and my mother were so pleased. He even went to see my niece and her boyfriend to apologise for his harsh words to them both, shouting that started from some obscure trivial words! All in all it turned out ok!
Seems strange yet comforting that we can all share, even though thousands of miles separate us all, and even an ocean! ...thanks, paul