Hi Lowanne,
I am so incredibly sorry to hear your news. I cannot even imagine how the two of you must feel after going thru so much already. It seems so unfair. I don't know how you keep your resolve. We agree that the trach is horrendous. Why can your husband not speak if he had only partial laryngectomy? I know with the glossectomy speech is certainly less intelligible, but doesn't he still have his vocal cords?
I really don't know what to say to you other than I do not even know you but my heart is broken for the two of you and I hope you are able to find some peace in your life.
Doreen