Thank you Helen and Fran...I didn't think there was anything wrong with it either, so it shocked me when we got so much flack. I realize his family loves him a lot and they don't want him to do anything harmful that would make the cancer come back. Neither do I! But it was so nice to be out with our friends and socialize. It gave Ron (and myself) a few hours that we could forget about cancer, we were a "regular" couple again. It was a healing experience for us. I guess in the future, if we do that again, we just won't tell certain family members.

Shelley