Lenore.. I just wanted to add my deepest sympathys on Phil's passing.. just remember that he is without pain now and watching over you.. grieve now, but remember to keep on with your life, the day will come when the pain lessens and you can look back on the good times and smile. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I'm sure in many others.. looking foward to seeing you post again when you are up to it

Julie D.