Hi Tina,

Sorry to hear about your mom. Just doesn't seem fair ... I am 18 months post rad/chemo but first had surgery to remove my whole tongue. I am able to talk pretty darn good (use a palatal drop prosthesis) and haven't come across anybody who can't understand me. I work full-time for a major corporation and my speaking ability hasn't prevented me from doing my job. I don't enjoy talking on the phone like I use to but that's just another one of those adjustments I've had to make of my new life. I'm also able to eat just about anything (steak, chicken, seafood, veggies, pasta) except for breads, cookies, chips, cake (all the good stuff!). Even the "forbidden" foods mentioned are doable with a LOT of effort but I find it's not worth it. It goes without saying that it'll be a big adjustment for your mom but she sounds like one tough cookie and a real trooper. Keep us posted.

Hugs, Nancy