That's NOT old and I wonder if he is more worried than you about things? The mind is where sex really happens and if the mind is distracted with worry,... well then maybe?

He needs to get back to have a follow up dr's visit! He is surely right that he is cancer free but think how much fun it will be to have professional confirmation of that fact!

By the way I like the use of the word MORTIFY here! it is the ultimate pun (think about it) :p :p sex is an important part of life and living...

Get him in to see the dr. tell him I said so and don't make me come down there! (unless it is winter here)


Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.