Mark, yep, we are both older (hehehe). He is 53 and I am 51. And elem510, yep, if Jim knew I was posting this he would be mortified.!
Sometimes I feel selfish worrying about this one thing when others have so many other problems and other limitations due to their own cancer stories. But Mark is right, this is an important part of marriage, and I miss it. It may not even be related to the cancer or treatments at all, it just manifested itself during that time period, so Jim attributes it to that. I can not get him to go to a doctor for a follow up exam, he says he is cancer free so he doesn't need to go. Now that worries me more than the impotence thing.