Fran
There are so many maybe's in this disease. Bob smoked a ton since he was 11 years old but reality is was his cancer caused from me or him or from someone HPV positive we met early in our lives??? We are both positive now and know it's when and what is what happens?? I think everything has to be aligned to make this get you...You can't be angry at others...or judge thier behavior just be true to yourself and how you want to conduct your life. smoking is not the only risk factor and you can not control someones addiction....D