Gary,

Sorry you are going thru all this. We are just now starting down the same road. They terminated Paul last week and the cobra will cost us half of his ss. Right now I can't even think of getting a job to help things out because his Doctor's are too far for him too drive himself and it seems we are going to one or the other every week.
I guess we will have to sell everything we own except the car to get us too his appt. so we can get some medical assitance for his medical bills. We also are thinking of bankrupcy to get rid of all the herasment that is starting big time.
The important thing is that we have to keep fighting to overcome this awful killer and start a new life.
Paul has had three recurrences in one year and believe me he is really getting beaten down. I have tried to keep most of the money problems from him but now he has to know the problems so we can fix them. It's tough but if you keep looking there is help out there...Keep the faith

Shirley