Sherrie Lynn, if anyone asked me "Has it come back yet?" I think I would explode! That has to be the most insensitive remark of the year. As a recent patient, I have chosen to believe that it will NOT come back in my case, and I know that it does not always. I seriously believe that someone should get back to that nurse and explain to her how truly awful comments like that are. I hope you have her name, and if you don't want a confrontation, at least write a letter to the head of the department where she works. I am just steamed that anyone would say that to your husband, although I am sure he handled it better than I would have. Hang in there!
Joanna, Mad as a Wet Hen