Vicki, I am so glad that you all shared the info with his parents. It really was the right thing to do. As far as your tears-- they are a healthy and necessary emotional release for you. Please do not underestimate the strain that the role of caregiver will place upon you. You will need to recognize and deal with your own issues in this journey to be able to deal with his. The best therapies I discovered were #1. to start a blog here [I didn't know what a blog was 2 yrs ago, but I learned that it is just like an old fashioned diary of my teenage yrs- just not so private] and I could cry, curse, whine, ask for help, whatever I needed to do to get through what was going on. #2. There are some incredible people on OCF that "took me into their arms" and propped me up along the way. Please take advantage of all the good informations and support that is offered here. It will help you both get through athis. Amy in the Ozarks