I am curious are there any husbands out there being the primary caregiver to their wives? Actually my brother-in-law was wondering - not that the roles vary much-just perhaps in our own minds one thinks of women as caregivers maybe from a maternal aspect who knows , and you men please don't be offended- this is not my intent. Anyway I think he felt strange coming to this site to begin with and perhaps was looking for someone who might parallel his situation. Please no long explanations as to it doesn't matter since a caregiver is a caregiver- I agree; I am only curious as to this husband to wife model.


Thanks again for input-


Sarah

Sister is Stage 4 DIAG 9/06 Tongue/Tonsil /T4N1MO - BOT -right lateral/crossed midline-42 X IMRTS/ Carbo/Taxol for 7 weeks- finished treatment early 12/06-no trace to be found 1/24/07 Recurrence 12/09- rad neck and partial gloss 2/10