Thanks everyone -- I live about an hour from my folks so am trying to help mom when I can. I have a 3 year old and am 7 months pregnant and work full time so its harder to be there as much as I would like to be...

I am hoping it will get easier for both of them, it just seems like every day something new comes up (latest is he is coughing non stop so they have to delay radiation) -- if they could just have one week of knowing what to expect I think it would help so much...

Jen