Hi everyone -

I am new here... My father has oral cancer and is currently in radiation/chemo treatments. He has both a trach and a peg and is flat out miserable.

He used to be a well known public speaker and loved to give his opinions on everything! He also loved to eat out with my mom -- that was their social outlet.

So this has taken away two of his greatest loves and he is miserable -- won't do anything for himself, doesn't want to get out of bed, gets out of the shower and wants my mom to dry him off -- its only getting worse.

Has anyone been through this? Anything I can be doing??

Thanks in advance -- Jen