Wendy,you need to get some Home Health people in to help you. WHO is his Ins. Co.? Call them and ask if they have a Case Management section. If they do, you will be talking to an RN about his daily care and she can decide to recommend more help for you. You need to tell them he is still in treatment until the cancer is gone. Make sure the Ins. Co. understands that. If doing the above doesn't get you some help, then see if you can find another support person through a local Cancer Society. You need some relief. Amy