Delia
what do you have for support outside of you obvious love for each other? You are on a long road that gives new meaning to one day at a time.
The fact that he almost done with treatment as scheduled is great. The two weeks after Bob was done were very hard and when he wouldn't eat etc either but he did what he needed to do with some coaxing and OK I'll admit it some threatening. As Linda said fight for the whatever you think he needs. It is not always forth coming unless you ask the right questions or make the right demands. Please keep in touch and ask anything here somebody will typically have been there before you.
Hugs
Denise

Caregiver Husband Bob SCC tongue t2nomo Partial Glosectomy/neck disection 6/04 rad ending 9/23/04
Osteoradio-necrosis of the Mandible (ONJ) DX 6/09 Surgery 7/2/09 mandible resection/ several teeth extracted/ neck dissection NO FLAP and aggressive antibiotic therapy.