Thanks, you guys. I agree. I have adopted the tough love approach. I have. It's in her hands, and there's nothing more I can do. I'm not discounting the severity of the disease, or the aggressive regimen, but I have met others that went through the same treatment that have survived and moved on. The place where she was treated is known for having a very aggressive protocol, but even her doctors have basically said she needs a good kick in the butt. Tonight I met some friends for dinner whom I haven't seen since my parents got sick. The first thing out of one of their mouths was that I didn't have gray hair the last time they saw me. I don't know if stress has anything to do with it, but it was another nudge that suggests I should start to live and enjoy a life for myself and let her try to do the same. Thanks again.
Dave