Hello All,

I have not posted on this site for awhile.I had to remove myself to get some perspective.I have been following patty g's posting and if I'm correct her father in law Joe is having his surgery today.I wanted to wish the both of you good luck and I prayed for him last night and this morning.This is just the beginning of a very long and difficult road.I know that the night before and the day of surgery is very stressful.Patty,I want you to know how connected I feel to you.I'm sure that his doctors and the good lord will do all they can for him.

I read my earlier posts and realized how angry I truly am still.I have not located a support group in my area but I have started threapy.I should have done this a long time ago but I was to busy feeling sorry for myself and being angry at the world.It is so hard to get on with your life after you've cared for a cancer patient.Your whole world revoles around their treatments and doctors appointments that you lose your entire identity.


I want to hear how his surgery went and how you are doing Patty,so when you have the chance please post,I'm sure there are a lot of interested people in this forum.If you need to talk or share please let me know.

Brandon