Guys, i`ve learned after the past two years, it`s just one day at a time, much easier said than done....I am at the point, where I don`t even tell anyone how frank is, until he gets up in the morning, and I see how he`s doing. He`s been sick with a massive infection and next week we go to Dana Farber to see how much the new tumor in his sinus has grown and what can be done about it......As far as I`m concerned, the fear never leaves, because I never know what`s around the corner. But, I also think it`s normal for us caregivers to feel that way. Part of the word is care, and that`s what we do. So, we watch and worry...................Hope we all have reasonably stress free weekend..........Dee