Ginny,

It sounds like you are a bit relieved to have removed some of the stress in your life even though you have created some stress in regards to your sister. I hope the net effect is less stress for you. Be patient with the 15 year old. He will deal with this on his time and in his way. I had a 15 year old when this started and we moved his brother in with us, too (14 year old). I think with the cancer alone it would have been a rough road but getting the brothers back together has been a tougher road. They are still trying to learn to cohabitate and I think they have pretty much forgot about the cancer thing, which is good.

I am wishing you nothing but the best and most positive thoughts for your upcoming treatment(s).

Ed


SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023