Hello Lawrence; Sounds like you and your friend have started on the path to recovery right from the get go. What a wonderful attitude and what an amazing friend you are. Some folks head for the hills when the word cancer is mentioned...it's just too scary for them.
Before this recent personal dust up with SCC, I had the priviledge of attending my friend who was having surgery and chemo for breast cancer. We used "our" treatment waiting times as an opportunity to meditate and ponder some wise writings rather than just watch TV or chat. It ended up being a blessing not just for us but for the folks in the chairs close by and an example to the busy- even harried staff. There is peace and tranquility in the midst of serious illness if you seek it.
You can just guess who has been one of my best champions through the tough parts of radiation and post rad recovery.
Your shared goal is a connection like no other. May you both enjoy the victory that lies ahead.
Blessings, Fran