Jeff, Probably the best "1st thing to do" is have someone you trust go with you to all Dr. appts. for the next weeks, so that you have a 2nd pair of ears listening and taking notes. Read as much as you can here on the "Getting through it" subject. It will help you get prepared for the next steps. AND keep posting here as often as you can-ask lots of questions because you will get good answers. When you get a recommended treatment, let us know so we can help you with the stages [of radiation and chemo] Good luck and remember, You are not alone. Amy