You will have to put me up there with the queen nagger here. There are times I have provoked such venom from him. I just have to remind myself that sometimes the right thing isn't always the popular one.

I guess in a way I sort of treat him like one of my children. Mostly because it is the only way to get him to do the right things.

And then there are the times when I have to just let go and whatever happens happens. As a caregiver, I swear that the letting go is the hardest part.

Life has some damn hard lessons to teach.

Cindy


Caregiver to ex-husband Harry. Dx 12/10/04 SCC stg 3, BOT with 2 nodes left side. No surg/chemo x4 /rad.x37(rad comp. 03/29/05)Cisplatin/5FU(comp. 05/07/05)-T1N2M0-(cancer free 06/14/05)-(12/10/06) 2 yr. Survivor!!!