Cindy
Pete also had cisplatin and has now hearing loss and Tinnitus, although some times I think he uses it just to ignore me, now who`s paranoid !
You are having a extremely rough time Cindy and I really feel for you.
As my Grandmother used to tell me. " If I don`t pay you God will reward you ." Usually with a big smile on her face, her way of conning me into doing something for her. Not that she had to I would have stood on my head for her!
Hang in there Cindy

Marica