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Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 26 | Yes Helen,
I myself usually prefer a good stiff bourbon and coke at night while I am here ... however I've been getting home to late at night and to tired to even mix a drink.
Phewwwwwwww, this is hard work !
But seeing her better cared for because of all my perserverence and assertiveness in assuring she is getting what she needs keeps us both happy.
Instead of the drink tonight, I bought myself some special bath salts and oils for my long hot tub tonight ...
Warm thoughts, sweet dreams.
Betty
Caregiver to Sister, Woodstock, VT - 3/4 tongue removed & reconstructed w/forearm 5/21/04, some in the lymph nodes, neck dissection, brachy radiation in the hospital and now going through 2nd round radiation and to add cysplatin chemo. Stage II-III.
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