thanks for the feedback, lynn and ed. it helps greatly because i know depression and anxiety are part of the process and unavoidable for most people and the experiences are similar. it seems to me, however, that these states of mind inhibit the treatment to some extent and intensify their harshness and difficulties emotioanlly. at least for my sister (most likely for others too), this is taking so much of her energy. so i wonder about the strategies for dealing with anxiety and depression and the ways that caregivers can help, short of pushing the person into psychiatric treatment. i dont' know if i'm making any sense here because these things are so individualized. perhaps all we can do is to be there for when she needs us. but i'm afraid that if she stays in this state for too long it'll be more difficult to come out of it.

good thoughts, healing and peace.

gita