Jack, I have been reading your posts from the beginning, I am ready to write something back. It is late here so I'll keep it short. From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU. Your attention to Eric and his family is the highest example of human kindness. I hope you both rest easy and I pray his tonsillectomy is not as painful as some are.

Take care

Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.